Tuesday, June 30, 2015

Sabbath Reverence Leads to Personal Revelation

Sabbath Reverence Leads to Personal Revelation http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865631412/A-row-of-Sunday-shoes.html

            Reverencing the Sabbath can lead us to personal revelation and this reverencing should begin well before the Sabbath arrives.
            The Sabbath can truly become a delight if we are ready for what it offers. The Savior knew we needed to prepare our minds to fully participate in the sacred things of God. In 3 Nephi 17, Jesus, knowing the people lacked understanding, told them to go home, ponder what He had taught, pray for understanding and prepare their minds for the morrow when He would teach again. Studying and applying the Lord’s pattern of preparation as we ready ourselves for the Sabbath will greatly bless us.
 
A row of Sunday shoes
            My mother, a staunch Methodist, taught me a lesson about honoring Sundays, without saying a word. Each Saturday afternoon mother applied liquid polish to the shoes of my six younger brothers and placed them carefully in an open window to dry.
            The weekly sight of that long line of Sunday shoes drying on the windowsill spoke volumes to my young understanding. I could see that Sunday was a different day, a day apart from the scuffed shoes of the week, a day for offering our cleanest and best self to the Lord.   Mother wanted to honor God appropriately and polished shoes were a sign of her reverence for the Lord’s day. I learned on Saturday that the following day called for thoughtful preparation.

A love letter to Heavenly Father
            Our preparation for Sunday takes on holiness as we plan ahead, preparing our mental and spiritual focus; it shows the Father you love His day. Sister Linda S. Reeves, second counselor in the Relief Society general presidency, said to me, “When I take the time on Saturday to prepare for Sunday, it is almost like sending a love letter to my Heavenly Father telling Him that He is the most important person in my life. He has responded by sending me a feeling of love — letting me know that He appreciates my efforts as I take the time to prepare for the Sabbath day.”
            The prophet Ezekiel counsels, “And hallow my Sabbaths; and they shall be a sign between me and you, that ye may know that I am the Lord your God” (Ezekiel 20:20). How do we hallow the Lord’s Sabbaths?

A quiet chapel
            Prepared to worship when Sunday arrives, we can bring a new reverence to the environment of the chapel itself. Think how you would feel if you entered a chapel filled with ward members, sitting quietly and listening thoughtfully to the prelude music. In such a setting we can concentrate on the purpose of the meeting, feel the Spirit and receive inspiration. Our hearts are also prepared and our minds taught truth if we attentively sing the sacrament hymn, pondering such lyrics as:

“As now our minds review the past, we know we must repent;
The way to thee is righteousness — the way thy life was spent.
Forgiveness is a gift from thee we seek with pure intent.
With hands now pledged to do thy work, we take the sacrament.”
(“As Now We Take the Sacrament,” Hymns no. 169)

A witness of covenant
            As the sacrament is passed, we allow the Atonement of Jesus Christ to enter into our being, individually and personally. Here is the heart of the Sabbath. We reach out to partake of the emblems of the Atonement, witnessing publicly that we enter this covenant with Heavenly Father to keep the commandments, to always remember the Savior and to be willing to take His name upon us.
            With our symbolic action we are saying to God and man that we reach out to the Atonement of Jesus Christ, take it into our souls and desire His atoning blood to be applied in our lives. In this holy moment we acknowledge our constant need of the Redeemer, our desire for His forgiveness and blessing, and our commitment to live our covenants.
            Keeping the Sabbath continually throughout the day will reap great blessings from the Lord. The Sabbath is not just the three-hour block of meetings! We can think of each hour of Sunday as a sacred hour — employing the words “always remember him” carefully throughout this holy day. Thus we would fill our home with the spirit of the day. Are there simple changes in our Sunday habits that could keep out worldly distractions and add spiritual refreshment instead?

A deeper discipleship
            The effect of partaking of the sanctified bread and water gratefully and humbly is to make of us new creatures, spiritually reborn, as Paul teaches in 2 Corinthians 5:17. Week after week as we strive to live the sacramental covenant, we change. We deepen our discipleship as we prepare to keep the Sabbath holy and offer up our vows in righteousness (see Doctrine and Covenants 59:11); we then receive the guidance of the Holy Ghost, even personal revelation, in our daily life.
            When we commence each Sunday prepared and reverent, our depth of Sabbath understanding will be as spiritual food to all members of our family. Faith in the Lord will grow in our homes as we bring our Sabbath day reverence into our living places.
            Just as at church, reverence for the Divine in a home brings a spirit of truth and learning. Thoughtful preparation for and participation in the Lord’s day will surely make the Sabbath a delight at church and at home.

Saturday, June 27, 2015

Great Are the Words of Isaiah, Saith the Lord

In light of yesterday's 5-4 US Supreme Court ruling on same-sex marriage.
“The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints acknowledges
that following today's ruling by the Supreme Court,
same-sex marriages are now legal in the United States.
The Court's decision does not alter the Lord's doctrine
that marriage is a union between a man and a woman ordained by God.
While showing respect for those who think differently,
the Church will continue to teach and promote marriage
between a man and a woman as a central part of our doctrine and practice." 

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Tips for Enduring to the End

Elder Kevin W Pearson
6 Important Principles Help Us Endure to End

1. Don’t Forget to Pray
2. Come unto Christ and Be Perfected in Him
3. Press Forward with Faith
4. The Book of Mormon is Key to Spiritual Survival
5. Don’t Be Distracted and Deceived
6. Stay by the Tree (see Lehi’s Vision; also Alma 5:7)

            This is Nephi’s promise to you: “And I said unto them … whoso would hearken unto the word of God, and would hold fast unto it, they would never perish; neither could the temptations and the fiery darts of the adversary overpower them unto blindness, to lead them away to destruction. Wherefore, I … did exhort them … that they would give heed to the word of God and remember to keep his commandments always in all things. (1 Nephi 15:24-25)

Sunday, June 21, 2015

Happy Father's Day - Utah Dads

10 Things Utah Dads do better than Other Dads UtahValley360 10 June 2014
Dads aren’t in short supply in Utah. And while all kids roll their eyes from time-to-time at the things their fathers do, Utah dads are definitely better than most at a few things.

1. Attending church.
Mississippi and Utah top the charts as being the most religious states with 61 percent and 60 percent of its residents reporting they were very religious. And  89.9 percent of Utah Country residents are affiliated with organized religion.
2. Going on hikes.
Yes. Even dads.
The second highest peak in the Wasatch Mountains, Mt. Timpanogos, is arguably the most popular hike in Utah. Its peak reaches 11,749 feet, and Timp is home to Utah’s only glacier. Other notable hikes in Utah Valley include Lone Peak, Rock Canyon to Squaw Peak, Rock Canyon Trail, and of course, Provo’s iconic Y Mountain.
3. Taking their kids fishing.
Spanish Fork Reservoir and Salem pond are just two of Utah Valley’s fishing hotspots. They’re great for dads to take their kids to because they are calm and have an abundance of fish.
4. Speaking to their children in a foreign language.
Due in large part to the LDS dominance in Utah, and therefore its large returned missionary population, Utah Valley dads aren’t just speaking English. In fact, 1/3 of the workforce is bilingual.
5. Talking BYU sports.
Whether they’re a true blue Cougar fan rising and shouting, or a Ute or Aggie that’s moved their way south wishing the Cougars would sit down, sports fans in Utah are talking about BYU sports year-round. Thousands of users are on CougarBoard.com, and BYURadio has the only university-based daily sports talk show.
6. Being Boy Scouts.
Utah’s Boy Scout memberships top the list. Dads like LDS apostle Elder Dallin H. Oaks, Utah Senator Mike Lee and former Gov. Jon Hunstman Jr. were all Eagle Scouts. And with the Utah National Council having 86,814 members last year, future Utah Valley dads are going to be just as prepared as current dads.
7. Driving a minivan.
Utah has the highest percentage of households with children with 43.3 percent. You better believe most of those dads are carting their kids and their friends to church, school and soccer practice in a minivan.
8. Having more than one kid.
Dads around here have more than one bundle of joy. The average Utah family size is 3.14. The national average is 2.64.
9. Wearing a suit and tie all week.
When are Utah dads not wearing suits? Monday through Friday: work suits. Sundays: church suit. Sleep: They probably sleep in one too.
10. Being LDS.
Obviously.

Friday, June 19, 2015

Freedom to Choose

Yesterday marked 130th anniversary of Lady Liberty's arrival to New York City.
She stands proudly as a symbol for freedom around the world.
God has created each of us with the inherent freedom to choose.
We can choose how to live,
how to treat others, and how we use our freedom.
Learn more at http://mor.mn/36xhx.

Monday, June 15, 2015

The Book of Mormon: Another Testament of Jesus Christ

Defending the Faith: ‘If any man shall add unto these things...’
http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865630493/If-any-man-shall-add-unto-these-things-.html

            There are probably few, if any, missionaries for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who haven’t encountered the argument, usually advanced by evangelical Protestants, that the Book of Mormon and the other revelations given through Joseph Smith are illegitimate because the Bible forbids post-biblical scripture.
            The proof-text upon which this argument is based occurs at the very end of the Bible, in Revelation 22:18-19:
            “For I testify unto every man that heareth the words of the prophecy of this book, If any man shall add unto these things, God shall add unto him the plagues that are written in this book: And if any man shall take away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God shall take away his part out of the book of life, and out of the holy city, and from the things which are written in this book.”
            There are also probably few missionaries who haven’t countered that argument by observing that those two verses almost certainly refer only to the book of Revelation itself and not to the Bible as a whole. In this context, it’s always useful, as well, to point out that parallel warnings occur at Deuteronomy 4:2 and 12:32.
            This missionary response is entirely sound. To the best of my knowledge, for example, absolutely nobody believes that those two passages in Deuteronomy, the Bible’s fifth book, invalidate the rest of the volume (including the entire New Testament). Here, though, I would like to provide some additional background.
            Modern scripture readers need to keep the fact in mind that the first Christians didn’t have our modern bound Bibles. In fact, “books” as we know them — the appropriate term for the earliest ancient books is “codices,” or, in the singular, “codex” — were only beginning to come into fashion at the very end of the New Testament period.
            For example, all of the documents recovered from the Nag Hammadi Christian library in Egypt — which was hidden in approximately A.D. 390 — were codices. It’s in Egypt that the earliest surviving codex fragments have been discovered. Some have been tentatively dated to the first half of the second century. A very few may date to the close of the first century. (Notable among these is Rylands Library Papyrus P52, containing a portion of the gospel of John, which may come from A.D. 125-160.) By contrast, every text found in the library of the Villa of the Papyri, located near Naples in ancient Herculaneum, is in the form of a scroll. (This library was buried in A.D. 79 by the same eruption of Mount Vesuvius that destroyed Pompeii.)
            The texts of the New Testament probably began to be written around A.D. 51, though. Dates suggested for the book of Revelation range from A.D. 68 to A.D. 96.
            Unless, therefore, the book of Revelation was among the very earliest texts not only recorded but also composed in codex form, it seems likely that the Greek word “biblion,” rendered in the King James Bible and most other English translations as “book,” doesn't mean “book” in our modern sense. In fact, the Common English Bible and the evangelical New International Version actually render “biblion” as “scroll,” and the very conservative Apologetics Study Bible note on Revelation 22 agrees.
            It’s also improbable that a scroll would have contained the whole New Testament, let alone the entire Bible. Codices replaced scrolls largely because the latter were so unwieldy.
            Moreover, the 66-book Protestant biblical canon — with Genesis at the beginning and Revelation at the end — didn’t instantly flare into existence upon the completion of the book of Revelation.
            Irenaeus knew a four-gospel canon by about A.D. 180. Shortly thereafter, by A.D. 200 — which is at least a century after the composition of the Revelation of John — something like today’s 27-book Protestant New Testament seems to have been recognized as canonical in certain circles. But there were still hefty disputes on the subject, and, in any case, the books circulated separately. (Our word “Bible,” as a matter of fact, comes from the Greek “ta biblia,” “the books.” The modern Bible is a collection or anthology of texts that were written by different authors at widely different times.)
            “It is doubtful,” says the Apologetics Study Bible note on Revelation 22:18-19, “the wording here refers to closing the canon of the Bible.” Rather, it says, with concurrence from the relevant NIV note, “the warning relates specifically to the book of Revelation.”
            Accordingly, it cannot count against claims of post-biblical revelation.

Saturday, June 6, 2015

Simple Pleasures Mormons Understand

21 Simple Pleasures Only Mormons Will Understand

1. Knowing the scripture that a speaker is quoting—especially if it’s not a scripture mastery scripture.

2. Finding the answer to a prayer in a random scripture. Getting an answer to a prayer is always a simple pleasure. Finding it somewhere unexpected is even more touching.

3. Singing your favorite hymn in sacrament—or any of the really inspiring hymns you love.

4. Hearing your favorite hymn sung by the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. Just like singing your favorite hymn in your local congregation, it’s also a joy to hear your favorite songs performed by the Choir—especially if you catch it during the weekly broadcast of “Music and the Spoken Word.”

5. Finding a modest shirt, swimsuit or pair of shorts. Even if you live in Utah, there’s a special thrill that comes with finding a modest piece of clothing you don’t have to alter or wear a tank top under.

6. Getting a letter or email from your missionary—especially for the missionary’s moms.

7. Listening to your favorite General Conference speaker. Every conference talk is good, but there’s always something special about your favorite speaker.
8. Hearing your mission language in General Conference. With the recent changes to allow foreign language at conference, it’s a thrill to hear your mission language used to deliver an address.

9. Watching General Conference in your pajamas. Seriously, there’s so much to love about General Conference!

10. Finish reading the Book of Mormon. Whether it’s your first time or your fiftieth, the sense of accomplishment you get after finishing Moroni 10 cannot be beat!
11. Finding hidden LDS connections in your favorite movies and games. Whether it’s listening to the now infamous discussion on “Cheers” about Mormons and flowers or finding a LEGO picture of Joseph Smith in a video game, finding LDS connection in pop culture is always fun.
12. When a non-member stands up for Mormons. We love to hear about times when those not of our faith stick up for us Latter-day Saints.

13. Getting a good deal at Deseret Book. Deseret Book has some quality LDS products, which is why getting a good deal there is always something to celebrate.

14. Finding out your favorite reality TV contestant is LDS. We knew we liked that person for a reason.

15. Hearing a really moving testimony. Doesn’t matter where—at Church, in a TV interview or at family home evening (FHE)—it’s always wonderful.

16. Eating after a long day of fasting—especially if you have been cooking dinner in the crockpot all day.

17. Getting daily LDS news in your email inbox. So excited to see what’s new in Mormondom!

18. Walking around the temple grounds. You don’t even have to go inside to appreciate the simple pleasure of walking around the temple.

19. Hearing new Church announcements. We get a thrill every time we hear an exciting new announcement from the Church.

20. Contributing a good comment to a Sunday school lesson. It’s always uplifting to know that you helped the teacher—and that you nailed it.

21. Recognizing the hand of God in the min-miracles of your everyday life. Above all, noticing the hand of God in our lives makes each and every small moment a simple pleasure.

Thursday, May 28, 2015

Doubt Your Doubts Before You Doubt Your Faith

One-Life Changing Question from the Book of Mormon (& the Answer)

            Over the last couple centuries, a lot of questions have surrounded the Book of Mormon—queries about its origins, its authenticity, and its teachings have been perpetuated by skeptic and believer alike. The book's contents are no different. From the first writings of Nephi to the dying testimony of Moroni, the Book of Mormon contains questions from an astounding 61 individuals—including prophets, missionaries, investigators, and apostates. Alma the Younger asked a grand total of 103 questions, Nephi posed 41, and the Savior Himself included 35 questions during his short ministry among the Nephites.
            Luckily for us, this abundance of inquiry need not go unanswered. In their book 52 Life-Changing Questions from the Book of Mormon, authors John Hilton III and Brad Wilcox help us to not only recognize difficult questions from scriptures, but to discern the answers through true doctrine. The following is a brief sample taken from their text.
            Question: Wherefore can ye doubt?
            When Nephi was trying to convince his brothers to try to obtain the brass plates from Laban, he said, “Now behold ye know that [what I say] is true; and ye also know that an angel hath spoken unto you; wherefore can ye doubt?” (1 Nephi 4:3). Laman and Lemuel had seen an angel—yet they still had doubts. Some people today are in a similar situation—they are in a position where they should know, but they remain unsure.
            Answer

            “Could I . . . uh . . .” The dark-haired elder approached his teacher at the Missionary Training Center and shifted his weight awkwardly. “I mean, I was wondering . . . if we could talk.” The teacher had just finished teaching a class, and the group was enjoying a short break.
            “No problem,” the teacher assured him. They walked down the hall, away from classrooms and companions for a moment. The teacher had noticed how this elder’s enthusiasm had waned as his time in the MTC had increased.
             “I feel like a terrible elder,” the missionary said. “I have so many doubts. You must think I’m wrong and weak.”
            The words shocked the teacher, and he responded, “Wrong? Weak? Are doubts wrong? Are questions a sign of weakness? No.  Didn’t Joseph Smith himself doubt and question as he learned?” The teacher opened his Pearl of Great Price to Joseph Smith-History and read: “In the midst of this war of words and tumult of opinions I often said to myself: What is to be done? Who of all these parties is right or are they all wrong together? If any one of them be right, which is it, and how shall I know it?” (Joseph Smith-History 1:10).
            The teacher looked up from the page and said, “If doubting and questioning are wrong, then the whole missionary system of the Church is wrong, for isn’t it our invitation to the world to escape tradition’s chains and test present beliefs against revealed truth? Don’t we openly invite people to doubt and question?”
            All of us have doubts—doubts about the future, doubts about decisions we have made or will make, doubts of a thousand kinds. But these doubts do not need to destroy us—answers will come. One woman spent long hours pondering struggles she was having with her testimony. As she weighed the assurances she had previously felt with the doubts she was currently encountering, she felt prompted to turn to the scriptures. As she did so, her scriptures fell open to Doctrine and Covenants 6, and she read these words: “If you desire a further witness, cast your mind upon the night that you cried unto me in your heart, that you might know concerning the truth of these things. Did I not speak peace to your mind concerning the matter? What greater witness can you have than from God?” (D&C 6:22-23). She felt the Spirit wash over her, and her doubts were replaced by faith.
            Sometimes our doubts are quickly resolved and sometimes we have to put them “on the shelf” for a time. But one thing is certain: the Lord has done great things for us and our ancestors and He will continue to do great things in the future. As Nephi said, “Let us go up; the Lord is able to deliver us, even as our fathers” (1 Nephi 4:3). Even though there may be things we do not fully understand, we can move forward as Nephi did, trusting in the God who has always stood by us.

Monday, May 11, 2015

A Relationship with God

3 Things Your Relationship with God Relies On

            It might seem like there are too many things we all should be doing to build our relationship to heaven, but there is definitely one formula that will get us there.

            One of the things I love about Joseph Smith is how young he was when he saw Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. The Father and the Son appearing to a relatively uneducated 14-year-old farm boy isn’t exactly a run-of-the-mill experience. But does the uniqueness of that experience mean that only Joseph Smith could be that close to God? 

1. Don't think you're less valuable than Church leaders.

            Joseph wanted us to know that “God hath not revealed anything to Joseph, but what he will make known unto the Twelve, and even the least Saint may know all things as fast as he is able to bear them” (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, p. 149).
            In other words, our relationship with God isn’t contingent upon the callings we receive. And it doesn’t require us to be anyone with a specific calling or priesthood. It simply requires a humble heart and a desire to always follow the Savior. 
            President Dieter F. Uchtdorf said in his October 2011 conference talk, “God knows that some of the greatest souls who have ever lived are those who will never appear in the chronicles of history. They are the blessed, humble souls who emulate the Savior’s example and spend the days of their lives doing good.”
            Similarly, President Boyd K. Packer explained in an October 2007 conference talk that “There is the natural tendency to look at those who are sustained to presiding positions, to consider them to be higher and of more value in the Church or to their families than an ordinary member. Somehow we feel they are worth more to the Lord than are we. It just does not work that way!”
            Don’t let Satan tell you that you’re capable of less than others or that you have a “rank” inside or outside the Church. All of God’s children have infinite potential. We each need to work out our own salvation before Him! 
            Take the Israelites, for example. They struggled and wandered for 40 years because they relied on Moses to be their connection to God instead of building a personal relationship with Him. As a result, they missed out on a lot of the blessings the Lord and Moses knew they could have received: 
            “Now this Moses plainly taught to the children of Israel in the wilderness, and sought diligently to sanctify his people that they might behold the face of God; 
            “But they hardened their hearts and could not endure his presence; therefore, the Lord in his wrath, for his anger was kindled against them, swore that they should not enter into his rest while in the wilderness, which rest is the fulness of his glory.
            Therefore, he took Moses out of their midst, and the Holy Priesthood also” (D&C 84:23-25). 
            The Lord offered all the Israelites the opportunity to dwell with Him, but they didn’t have enough faith or understanding to build their own personal connections with heaven. They thought Moses’ connection to God was enough for them as well. They shirked what was required for them to personally be in the presence of God. 

2. Don't rely on others for your testimony.

            I know that this is something I’ve done all too often in my own life. I’ve naively thought, “I’m a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. If I need to know something, someone else will tell me—because we have the fullness of the gospel.” Little did I understand that no one but Christ Himself can save me. Now I know I need to know Him for myself, and neither you nor I can rely on someone else to build that relationship for us. 
            That is why the story of Joseph Smith illustrates, to me, why the gospel is so amazing. Though the experiences of others provide witnesses that cause us to begin trying to gain our own, we don’t live the gospel of Jesus Christ because a 14-year-old boy saw God in 1820, or because of the experiences of anyone in our day. We live the gospel of Jesus Christ because we believe that we can see the Lord for ourselves. Joseph Smith is an example of someone who strove to live the gospel and saw God and Jesus Christ because of it. What Joseph Smith experienced is, like a scientific experiment, both observable and repeatable. And the formula is in Moroni 10
            That’s why most of us are members of the Church today: because we’ve tested out the method The Book of Mormon and Joseph Smith put forth and have seen good fruits from doing so. We’ve seen blessings come into our lives. We’ve felt the comfort and the peace and the love of the Savior through the Holy Ghost, and we’ve had numerous prayers answered. We’ve had the Spirit bear witness to us of truth, and we’ve had enough personal experiences with the Spirit to verify that witness. We may not have seen the Lord as Joseph Smith did, but we’ve received enough preliminary “evidence” to believe it’s possible that we one day can.
            As the Prophet Joseph explained, We cannot claim these promises which were made to the ancients for they are not our property, merely because they were made to the ancient Saints, yet if we are the children of the Most High, and are called with the same calling with which they were called, and embrace the same covenant that they embraced, and are faithful to the testimony of our Lord as they were, we can approach the Father in the name of Christ as they approached Him, and for ourselves obtain the same promises. These promises, when obtained, if ever by us, will not be because Peter, John and the other Apostles . . . but it will be because we, ourselves, have faith and approach God in the name of His Son Jesus Christ; even as they did; and when these promises are obtained, they will be promises directly to us, or they will do us no good” (Joseph Smith, TPJS, p. 66, emphasis added).

3. Live up to your privileges.

            And President Dieter F. Uchtdorf adds, “Think of what a glorious thing it is to reach beyond our earthly limitations, to have the eyes of our understanding opened and receive light and knowledge from celestial sources! It is our privilege and opportunity . . . to seek personal revelation and to learn how to know the truth for ourselves through the sure witness of the Holy Spirit.”
            I, for one, want to always try to avoid living below my privileges.  Don’t go through life unaware of something you could have enjoyed the blessings of—take the time to build a personal relationship with God.

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Nice Things to Do for Your Mum or Your Wife!

51 Nice Things To Do for Your Mother

Doing something for your mom without being asked will go a LONG WAY in her book! It doesn’t have to be big...the small things add up!

      1.     Make the bed.
2.     Take the kids for a whole day so she can be a person, not a mom for a bit.
3.     Grab her hand in public.
4.     Take her for a walk, sans kids.
5.     Plan an ENTIRE date yourself. Book a sitter, a restaurant and plan an activity. Promise, she will absolutely love this.
6.     Give her a no-strings-attached massage.
7.     Give her a spa certificate.
8.     Do one of her chores for her...without being asked.
9.     Take the kids on a date. She will love the time off and love the fact that you are spending time with them.
10.  Buy her a birthday, Christmas gift without asking her what she wants. Put some thought and effort into it.
11.  Bring her flowers or chocolates for no reason.
12.  Do the dishes after dinner. She spends a lot of time preparing a great meal...it’s no fun to do the dishes on top of cooking.
13.  Cook dinner. Even if it’s only your best effort.
14.  Send her to get a manicure/pedicure. Watch the kids of course.
15.  Look at her and tell her she’s beautiful.
16.  Give your phone a break and pay attention to her and your family.
17.  Let her pick the movie...even if it is a chick-flick. No complaining.
18.  Fill up her car with gas. Wash it and vacuum it too.
19.  Surprise her with an entire planned weekend getaway. That would blow her mind. Dawn from FB: “Wake me up first thing in the morning, telling me to get dressed. He has our bags packed and we are headed on romantic getaway. Everything has been done. Kids at babysitter, house already set to leave. We are good gone for the weekend. No one else just us. If he did this, it would blow my mind.”
20.  Play with her hair.
21.  Carry her to bed...and let her take a nap! Uninterrupted.
22.  Heat the bed for her.
23.  Pick up your things.
24.  Book a hotel room for her for a day. Give her a break from the craziness at home.
25.  Paint her toenails.
26.  Take an active role in planning and preparing for your family (i.e. packing kids’ lunches wrapping gifts, helping with holidays, etc)
27.  Clean something...anything...without being asked.
28.  Put the kids to bed and let her read a book.
29.  Do the grocery shopping for her.
30.  Make her hot chocolate in the morning.
31.  Lead her to the couch, pick up her feet and give her a foot rub.
32.  Give her the credit card and let her go shopping.
33.  Clean the bathrooms.
34.  Write her a song or poem
35.  Give her a DIY pedicure/manicure.
36.  Make her a bath.
37.  Hire professionals to clean the entire house.
38.  Dance with her.
39.  Get her little gifts. Grab her favorite candy bar when you’re at the store. Get a single rose, some chapstick ... sometimes the little things speak volumes.
40.  Get in the car and go for a drive.
41.  Make her breakfast.
42.  Get up with the kids on a Saturday and let her sleep in.
43.  Pack a picnic and go.
44.  Tell her you love her more often.
45.  Write her a love note.
46.  Bring home her favorite ice cream.
47.  Send her a sweet text during the day.
48.  Bring home dinner (give her a heads up first).
49.  Compliment her on something specific.
50.  Thank her for something specific.
51.  Give her the remote.