That’s what a
community is
by Lloyd
Newell [19 Jan 2020]
How does a group of individuals, all with different backgrounds and
different perspectives on life, become a united community? Well-known author
and newspaper columnist David Brooks believes that the answer lies in how we
see each other. “That’s what a community is,” he says, “a bunch of people
looking after each other. A bunch of people seeing each other, and seeing each
other deeply. Taking the time to really enter into relationships with each
other and to depend upon one another. … That’s the glue that’s holding us
together” (see “BYU Forum: The Lies of Meritocracy,” by Kaylee Esplin, Brigham
Young University News, Oct. 22, 2019, news.byu.edu/intellect/byu-forum-the-lies-of-meritocracy ).
Can that really happen? Brooks believes it can and it
does — when great teachers see deeply into their students, when loving spouses
see deeply into each other. This kind of seeing goes beyond stereotypes and
outward appearances, building bridges of understanding.
The aspen tree is an excellent metaphor for the unity and
strength that can come from community. Above the ground, each aspen may appear
solitary and strong in its beauty and majesty. Yet if we could see deeply,
below the ground, we would find that each tree is connected with its neighbors
through an enormous root system. An aspen gets its strength from its connection
with the aspens that surround it. In a sense, the entire aspen forest is really
one plant — one of the largest living organisms in the world. A single grove in
central Utah, called Pando or “the trembling giant,” spans 106 acres, weighs an
estimated 13 million pounds and consists of over 40,000 trees, all with the
same genetic makeup (see “Pando (I Spread),” United States Department of Agriculture, fs.usda.gov).
If we open our eyes to see and our hearts to understand,
we can build a community in a similar way. After all, we all share, if not the
same DNA, then a common humanity. We all want happiness and peace; we all want
to make a difference. Because we’re more alike in important ways than we are
different, we already have it in us to see and know each other deeply, to look
after each other, to build a strong community.
None of us is truly solitary, alone in this
world. We are more like aspen trees. If we see and know each other deeply, we
will come to understand that we all share common roots. We all need each other.
That’s where we get our strength. That’s what a community is.
Goodbye Mr Chips by Leslie Bricusse
In the morning of my life I shall look to the sunrise.
At a moment in my life when the world is new.
And the blessing I shall ask is that God will grant me,
To be brave and strong and true,
And to fill the world with love my whole life through.
(Chorus)
And to fill the world with love
And to fill the world with love
And to fill the world with love my whole life through
In the noontime of my life I shall look to the sunshine,
At a moment in my life when the sky is blue.
And the blessing I shall ask shall remain unchanging.
To be brave and strong and true,
And to fill the world with love my whole life through
(Chorus)
In the evening of my life I shall look to the sunset,
At a moment in my life when the night is due.
And the question I shall ask only God can answer.
Was I brave and strong and true?
Did I fill the world with love my whole life through?
(Chorus)